Can a Minor Ignore Her Parents' Rule Against Seeing Her Adult Boyfriend

[jk]

so, I would suggest your put the tools away, be very nice to the parents so they do not report this to the police, and leave the girl alone. That means; do not call her. Do not text her. Do not meet up with her somewhere. Do not accept phone calls or texts from her.

If you anger her parents, you could end up in prison until you are 30 something.

Leave the kid alone.

btw: Your friends parents are being a lot nicer than I would be. In fact, the police really would be the least of your worries if it was my little girl you were messing with, and it would all look completely legal because the way things would happen, it would be legal.

[IAM1994]

Is everyone THIS ignorant? You know nothing of the situation. You presume I'm some nasty perverted guy. Truth is, I never tried to say what I did was "right" or "okay." It was actually a huge mistake. I hadn't known she was young for a while. I got feelings. Then things happened that were not supposed to happen, and then I regretted it. I tried to repent even. I realized it was not right. The parents wouldn't even ask me why I did what I did. They didn't ask if I was sorry. They didn't even ask if I was brain dead for making such a bad decision. I tried to mend the situation, but there's obviously nothing I can do. I WILL wait until she becomes an adult though. I don't want another girl if I can't have this one, and that has NOTHING to do with her physically. I've never been more honest with a person. So everyone who presumes I'm some twisted freak, you should think about your fellow human and the one mistake they made and regret. Wouldn't you want that for yourself? What mistakes have you made?

[Dogmatique]

Is everyone THIS ignorant? You know nothing of the situation. You presume I'm some nasty perverted guy. Truth is, I never tried to say what I did was "right" or "okay." It was actually a huge mistake. I hadn't known she was young for a while. I got feelings. Then things happened that were not supposed to happen, and then I regretted it. I tried to repent even. I realized it was not right. The parents wouldn't even ask me why I did what I did. They didn't ask if I was sorry. They didn't even ask if I was brain dead for making such a bad decision. I tried to mend the situation, but there's obviously nothing I can do. I WILL wait until she becomes an adult though. I don't want another girl if I can't have this one, and that has NOTHING to do with her physically. I've never been more honest with a person. So everyone who presumes I'm some twisted freak, you should think about your fellow human and the one mistake they made and regret. Wouldn't you want that for yourself? What mistakes have you made?

Oh cry me a river.

She didn't know she was "young"? Whyever not?

The fact that you're obsessing to THIS degree is actually quite worrisome. Have you sought counseling?

[jk]

=IAM1994;657040]Is everyone THIS ignorant?

are you this ignorant? You were told what you did was illegal. You wanted to argue and say it wasn't. Several people pointed out your apparent error and showed you that you were in fact wrong and you have committed a felony that could put you in prison for 15 years.

Now, if you want to play with the little girl, have at it. Plan on spending a lot of time in prison. You were warned.

You know nothing of the situation.

Reallly? What do I need to know. You were having sex with a little bitty girl. I don't need to know anymore than that. There is no excuse for what you did and now that you know all the facts, you attempting to continue with your relationship is sheer stupidity.


You presume I'm some nasty perverted guy.

Truth is, I never tried to say what I did was "right" or "okay."

actually, you did exactly that when you argued it was not criminal.

It was actually a huge mistake.

you bet it was and if you are smart, you will zip your zipper and stay away from the little girl for a long time.



I hadn't known she was young for a while. I got feelings. Then things happened that were not supposed to happen, and then I regretted it. I tried to repent even. I realized it was not right.

The parents wouldn't even ask me why I did what I did. They didn't ask if I was sorry

.It doesn't make any difference if you were sorry. They don't care why you did it because it doesn't matter. You committed a felony. There is no excuse for that.

What mistakes have you made?

thinking you would understand that you can go to prison for a long time from this and think it would make a difference.

[Dogmatique]

jk, have you ever had unlawful intercourse with a minor?

I have never had unlawful intercourse with a minor.

My kids have never had unlawful intercourse with a minor.

We are so abnormal!

[PandorasBox]

I am a complete freak. I waited until I was 28, you read that right. He was 27.

Young man....you have no legal loopholes. As long as she lives under her parents roof, it's their house, their rules. So even when she turns 18 and is living at home, her parents can still tell her she can't see you.

In the meantime, if you do see her - one little phone call to the police, and you will be spending the rest of your life on the Sex Offender Registry. That will make finding an apartment difficult; finding work difficult; because you will not be allowed anywhere near children. Some people actually will do their best to run a sex offender out of their neighborhood.

Best to go consult with a Criminal Defense Attorney in case charges do get filed against you, and have no contact with her until she is 18 or out of high school (whichever comes last) and out of her parents home.

[cbg]

I was a minor myself when the acts were committed. I understand if that doesn't change anything, but could that have been overlooked? I wasn't an adult at the time.

We understand that you were a minor at the time. That has not been overlooked. It does not change anything. You are still guilty of a crime that could land you in big-boy prison.

[LawResearcherMissy]

You know nothing of the situation.

Sure we do. You committed a third degree felony that will have lifelong consequences for you if you don't get the hell over yourself right now.

The parents wouldn't even ask me why I did what I did. They didn't ask if I was sorry. They didn't even ask if I was brain dead for making such a bad decision.

So? What makes you think any of this is necessary? You're lucky Daddio didn't come after you with a shotgun. If it was MY underage daughter you raped, you wouldn't hear me asking "Are you sorry?", either, because I'd have killed you with my bare hands. Yes, raped. That's what it's called when someone is not legally able to consent.

I don't want another girl if I can't have this one

Oh, lawdy. Stupid flakes drowned in melodrama. YOU might wait around and pine away for the next four years, but she's not going to. She'll find someone more age appropriate, and if you weren't so selfish and self-centered, you'd understand that she's got the entirety of high school ahead of her, with Homecoming and Prom and all the attendant activities that she's going to want to participate in.

Grow up and get over yourself.

[IAM1994]

All if you people are f***ed up. I came here's seeking help, and all I got was people making back handed comments on how I need to put my dick away. Just because I was trying to see If it wasn't illegal does NOT mean I tried to justify it. Not everything that is illegal is bad. For example, medical marijuana, gay marriage, and spitting on the sidewalk in one of our 50 states... I thought the people on here were educated. I thought she was a junior when I was a senior. When I found out she was younger, I started backing off. I made jokes about the age difference because I knew I couldn't be with her. Then she started getting upset that I kept bringing it up. So I stopped. We started talking more and I we eventually put a label on our relationship. I treated her like a princess. Not once did I make her feel out of place or upset. She told me that it was the first time she could ever be herself with someone, and that's how she got too comfortable and STUPID THINGS HAPPENED. I never even asked her or coerced her to do anything. I know I'm STILL in the wrong, by knowing that I broke the law is STILL KNOWING NOTHING ABOUT THE SITUATION. Besides, how many times have you heard about the older guy being physical with the younger girl and actually WORKING TO FIX THINGS rather than being a coward and just forgetting about the girl? I know that all I can do is stay away from them for now, but I will fix this. As for all of you impulsive ignoramuses who would "grab your shotgun" or tell me I'm an idiot when I already know that, maybe you should stop using this site. Go hurt the people around you rather than random strangers desperately seeking guidance.

[Mr. Knowitall]

Are you mentally ill or developmentally delayed? From what you've been posting here, you appear to be both extremely immature and in serious need of psychiatric help.