We just got separated(NOT Filed, she just moved out) and before leaving wrote up an agreement on personal property(Table, couch,etc..) she was taking and leaving. Also wrote an agreement up on the house and the amount we decided on if I sold it, before or after divorce(she only wanted 30%) or an amount(10K) I would pay her if I decided to keep it(in NC,have to be separated 1 year before divorce). So pretty uncontested so far, but afraid she will change her mind once lawyers are involved. These agreements were signed by both of us, but, not notorized.Told by a lawyer in a consultation they can still hold up in court. I want to quick claim her off the house and pay her the 10K cause I plan on keeping the house. What do I do If she doesn't want to sign? Can she be forced to sign to uphold the agreement? Should I wait until the divorce for the judge to write this up in the divorce decree or try and do it inthe 1 year separation period? Don't want to piss her off so she trys and takes everthing cause were on OK terms! Please help!

