My question involves restraining orders in the State of: North Carolina
Thank you in advance for your responses.

I was served with a TRO in Sept of last year. I agreed to accept the restraining order at the advice of my attorney due to the fact that my attorney told me eventhough the restraining order was bogus and entered under false statement by her, the judge would probably go ahead and grant it anyway just to be safe. I had no intentions of seeing her again, so in order to minimize the increasing attorney fees for the continuances thathad already occurred four times I just took the order. Now the order is a month from expiring. I have not seen or talked to the complaintant for fourteen months, nor do I have a desire to. I DO, however, have a desire to write her parents a letter and explain to them what really happened, and that the story they heard from their daughter was NOT what happened. I simply want those who know of the restraining order and her part in what happened because she has made me look like someone I'm not, and me and my son did have a very good relationship with her parents.

I'm just wanting to know the legality of writing a letter to her parents explaining MY side of the story if done after the expiration of the order. This is what I need to do for closure.