I wish you the best of luck. I think it is somthing his attorney set him up to do. I was done the same exact way. I had asked for a divorce over a year with my x refusing to go to court or to his depositions or anything because he knew i had all the evidence against him and he had no evidence. Well one night my 6 year old would not mind after I repeatly told him to go to bed so i spanked him (2 licks) one on the butt the other hit his lower back because he moved. Next thing i know i am in jail without my sons convicted of domestic violience agianst my son. I left no bruise but did leave a red mark. But guess what the very next month my x was willing to go to court and he got stole my kids away from me. He knows he and his mother stole them. All i did was what most other parents would have done after reapeatly telling there child to do something. I spanked him with 2 licks with my bare hand and lost my children and spent the night in jail and now have a criminal record,
there is no dought in my mind that the ass set you up. Good luck

