No but it was made a point that why someone would have more children if they can't afford the one/s they have. Shame on both parents for trying to move on with their lives.At the point and time we had our first child together we could afford her and his oldest. We can not predict the future,if we could I would have went to the CS office that day 2yrs ago and paid his CS instead of him,which resulted in his car accident that nearly killed him,and lost his job as a result of it,and added on another large amount of arrears (which is still owed to CP and he IS paying and she will continue to receive)which in turn gained so much interest and surcharges that he now does not have to pay.(which was never due to her but the CS office and state) All this because I posted an update on his court date and the outcome of it. I only posted the update because there were over 1200 views..which lead me to believe that there are other people out there(man OR woman) who did not know that they may see a light at the end of the tunnel for being relieved of the surcharges and interest that the CS office and state charges and collects. NOT the arrears that are due to the CP. The only way to have his actual unpaid support waived is if CP agrees,and my husband has never even considered the notion..because he knows the CP is owed it. I'm just damned if I do and damned if I don't,no matter what I say on here. Matter of fact I'd love know how to close this thread..if there is a way to.