Documented: kept a journal of times, dates and places so I could remember the details. Perhaps a more concise way of stating the next three paragraphs is that this man has contemptuously defied the Court many times, and has remained unscathed. This is not vengeance, this is I've finally had enough. I am asking these questions because I do not KNOW what will happen if he does not show up for court, and because despite having paid an attorney I am still in the dark. I am the only family my son has besides this joke of a father and I am AFRAID of what will happen tomorrow. I am sincerely grateful for any advice you could give, but frankly find your tone quite condescending. I am a victim and I am trying to use the system to put a stop to being a victim; so far the only help received from anywhere has been repeated kicks to the cods. So any advice on how to best present myself and my case at the hearing would be very, VERY much appreciated.