There is absolutely no way a Washington court will issue a TEN YEAR (or permanent?) RO on the whims of a complainant AND include mutual children.

Could you please clarify?

According to this:

I went to the hearing and of course the ex being pregnant got awarded the order of restraints, I still have the paper work and her statement was said she called the cops because I had slapped her up and down, and slammed her against a wall, yet when the police came out there they would NOT arrest me because ALL I did was slap her face and slam her against the wall.

So did you or did you not actually do these things?