asulover, I was not complaining about not getting child support, I want nothing to do with this person or her money. I just want her to leave me alone. And who the hell wants to set an example of being arrested? I was the primary caretaker of our child from birth, and she used the system to gain custody of our child. I just want to be a father that our child will look up to. I thank all of you that gave me real advice, and did not patronize with there opinion of what a "man" should be.