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PTPD22
Ah, contraire, mademoiselle! Your BF has definitely NOT been trying to "stay out of trouble." By your own post, your BF has decided that the priority in his life is smoking weed, in direct divergence of staying out of trouble. The father of your child has decided that smoking weed is more important than living up to his probation agreement, more important than staying out of prison, more important than being around for you and your child, and more important than avoiding a life-long label of "convicted felon." With priorities like that, one has to seriously question where you and your child rank among his list of priorities!
Since the charge your BF is on probation for is drug related, I am surprised that regular and surprise drug testing is not already one of his conditions. At the very least, I would imagine that one result of his violation hearing will be the added requirement for such tests...and the first test will likely be scheduled within no more than a few days. Since weed tends to linger in the system, that test will almost assuredly be "hot" even if the idiot quits right now. And guess what a "hot" piss test means! Yep, another violation, with another violation hearing! Your BF is going to be very lucky if he is not spending some more time in a jail cell very soon. But, not to worry. Even if the judge cuts him yet ANOTHER terrific break, your BF's displayed priorities and complete lack of ability to be law abiding will surely overcome even the most forgiving judge and he will achieve his apparent goal of having his room and board provided by the state.