My question involves a child custody case from the State of: TX and La
My order is out of TX but my daughter and I live in LA for the last two plus years. We have been in court for child support contempt and he is going for full custody for the last year and half. My daughter began visiting with ex at the end of December. So she has been steadily going over there for about seven months. Well before summer began I suspected that my daughter was calling dad's gf mommy. During a phone conversation with my daughter I heard them refer to the gf as mommy to my daughter and it is becomming more noticable now that she is calling her mommy. I asked my daughter if she was and in fact she is. It if very hurtful to hear some of the things they say about me over there ( dad says to daughter that I have a dirty house, dont take care of her, things like that. The son over there says things like I am fat and ugly and that I tell my daughter to do stuff or I will kill myself) to my daughter but to now know that they are encouraging her to call dad's gf mommy!!! This is very damaging to me and my daughter's relationship! My daughter says she wants to call her that but of course she does after months of encouraging and coaxing from dad and family over there. My daughter is six years old and will know what she is taught. She does have enough respect to not call her mommy in front of me and that same respect, I feel, should be encouraged over there.
My question is... Can I have it put into the order that any gf or new wife or bf or new husband not be called our titles? Meaning any gf or wife of his not to be called mommy, mom, mama, ext. and same for me?
Any thoughts and opinons are very much appreciated!

