:-) I'll take any suggestions I can get. Correct. The name has never really been an issue for him until now. Dad was not happy that I gave him my maiden name when he was born, but never considered fighting it (that I know of). My husband recently talked to the paternal grandpa who said he understood our reasoning for wanting the name change but said bio dad wants him to 'eventually' have his name. I will definitely let you know what happens.

