Really? This is a guy you want to marry? Ok...I'm not your father and it's none of my business. So, I'll drop that particular topic.
Oh...so, it's the bondsman's fault that your fiancé didn't realize that the court would issue warrants for failing to appear NINE TIMES?!?! The bondsman likely didn't tell your scofflaw fugitive fiancé about the warrants because he/she was hunting him down themself to get his/her money back after your fiance violated his contract with them!
So, you didn't learn from the bondsman's mistake? You're going to flush you own money down the toilet by paying a bail for someone with a demonstrated intention to flee his responsibilities? Do you really think that your fiancé is going to change his stripes?
You are right...they probably aren't going to let him out on bail. He has proven himself untrustworthy NINE TIMES! What was the "probation violation?" Since it sounds like something separate from the multiple FTAs, I'm thinking that it was a new criminal offense? What did he do this time? What was the original offense that he was on probation for? If the state becomes convinced that your fiancé is unreceptive to rehabilitation (which his actions clearly communicate...in fact it sounds like he is striving for career criminal status), the only option left is punishment and protecting society by removing him from it.
As far as what should you do...well, obviously, my advice would be to dump his sorry a$$ and find someone worthy of your trust and affection. But, if you are dead set on squandering your own resources on helping him, take that $3,000 you're offering for bail and hire him a good criminal defense attorney.

