I'm a portuguese citizen living inGermany. I have a High school diploma. Two years ago I met this guy and fell in love. He's an american citizen living in Oklahoma. After that i went to visit him twice. The first time in 2011 and the second was just a couple of weeks ago. Going back to Germany broke my heart and now I'm desperately trying to find a way of legally being able to live in the US with him as soon as possible because being away from him is more painful than what i thought it would be. So much so that being with him is all i can think about and this little flick of hope is all I have to help me cope with it.
He's starting College this year and i really don't want to get in the middle of that. I wanna do this on my own without getting him involved.
I have the intention of becoming a nurse and thats where the questions come;
#1. If I complete the Krankenschwesterhelfer degree in Germany (that would be the same as a licenced practical nurse degree) will i be able to work in the USA as such? That is my intention and then later in life I have the intention of becoming a registered nurse in the USA.
#2. If yes what should I do once i complete the Ausbildung in Germany so i can move to the USA/ get a Visa or Green Card?
#3. If no, what else can I do to be able to be near the guy I love? Is there anything else I can do without getting him involved?
Please reply soon. All these questions torment me and I dont know what to do or who to talk to. I'm sorry if this is the wrong forum. I'm new.

