Quote Quoting grizzley
Hello, and in advance thanks to anyone ,who replies.
We got the police report and there we several unaccurate statments in it.
1. The female officer was never mentioned
2.The female officer interviewed my wife, but in the report thae male officer states he did the full investgation. my wife says he asked her 2 questions, do you need an ambulance and do you have any weapons in the house,
3. it states my miranda rights were read to me and I waived them, I was never read those rights.
One possibility is that the female officer wrote the report. Another possibility is that he overheard all the statements (perhaps the other officer recorded them) so he could just put down what was said. We often write reports involving what was said not necessarily what was said and not as a response to a particular question by an officer.

Also, you admit you do not remember everything about that night. Perhaps you don't remember Miranda either. And in any event, Miranda is not required until you are both under arrest and being interrogated. So, anything you said after they slapped the cuffs on might be able to be suppressed if they did not read you Miranda.

Also my wife states that the police searched our house, every drawer and closet. with our her permision they didnt even ask first.
Did they find anything? If they did not find anything to be used against you, it's not an issue for this case. Additionally, there could be a number of justifications for such a search. But, since there is no connection to the DV charge, it would seem a moot issue and a red herring.

They also confinscated 5 of my hunting rifles.
Required by CA law. In fact, that might justify the search you describe as they look for more weapons or ammunition.

I am a Paramedic in the city,where this took place. I am concerned as too what might or will happen, a felony I lose my license automaticly, a misdemenor i might lose it anyways.
Ouch. See the long term effects of what happens when you drink and lose control?

My wife is planning to refuse to testify agianst me.
She cannot refuse a subpoena. Is she willing to go to jail to protect you?

Keep in mind that the DA expects this to happen ... in more than 75% of DV cases the victim recants or states they will not assist the prosecution. They will likely go ahead anyway.

I am trying to quit drinking right now 7 days sober.
Seven is a start ... 90+ would be more impressive. Perhaps you should BOTH try sobriety.

any advice would be wonderful
Hire an attorney ASAP.

- Carl