Your advice to me was to ...abort my child, in order to feel better prepared for my husband to go to jail? ...Seriously?
I'm fully aware of how to "prevent" a child. This baby was very planned, and I'm 20 weeks. No going back now. ...Thanks though. I think.

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As they have said....the fines are going to be a lot more than the classes, plus potential for jail. He needs to take responsibility for this and contact the court asap.

I would advise seeking help with Community Mental Health or Planned Parenthood. You are already with two kids you can't afford and a third on the way. Both offer sliding-scale services for birth control. Michigan has a plan called Plan First, and I get my birth control for free. When I was employed, I got Depo Provera on a sliding-scale fee. It's a shot that lasts three months, and it was $40. Definitely worth looking into after your baby is born. Planned Parenthood can also assist you in getting supplies for the baby, and if you are being abused, refer you to assistance.
Upon reviewing his court order, it simply states, by the judge that my husband is ordered to remain on Unsupervised probation for 11 months and 29 days. And court in June will simply be a "Review" of that court order. It states at the bottom in different hand writing that his wife simply requested he take a 26 weeks court of "DV classes."