You seem to have failed to understand me. I do not want to stay here to obtain a green card, I wish to stay because I don't want to deal with a long distance relationship. I am actually trying my best to obtain an H1 B but I was wondering what if I fail. I want to get married to this guy eventually and I guess I am afraid that distance might break us up if I leave. That's all there is to it and no my sole purpose is not to get married to him to get a green card its actually to be with this guy because i'm pretty much half way across the world. Thanks for your advice but please don't judge me based on my question. It probably is a bad idea but it was only an inquiry due to my current predicament