My question involves criminal law for the state of: Virginia.
I currently live in MD, dated a guy that I knew from HS while I was in college. I would commute from MD to VA for school. Anyway, I began dating an abusive guy, it started with verbal insults, them about a month into the relationship he became physically abusive. The first rape occurred the last Friday of May 2009. I didn't to to police but did talk with a social worker and ER therapist June 8, 2009. I was too scared and embarrassed to give him name, no report was given.
August 31, 2009, after stupidly getting back together, he raped me again, beat me with a belt which left scars still visible to this day.I became pregnant from that incident, and the violence and more rapes continued. He even recorded sexual assaults and took pictures of the damage he did to me up until I was eight months pregant, then I was able to get out of that situation.
My daughter was born in May of 2010, and after learning of her birth, he came to visit a handful of times, though he always would get violent with me. It ended after she was a month old. He took me to court demanding sole legal and physical custody of our child, but instead I was awarded sole legal and physical custody, so that's not even a concern of mine. He gets supervised visits.
During the discovery phase of the case, however, his lawyer alerted my lawyer that there were videos of me on a pornsite, and the copy she sent my lawyer of a video posted was one where he that edited it to only show me, but I was bruised and apologizing, visibly shaken and afraid in the short clip. I just would like to know if he can be prosecuted for anything, any video he had shows that I wasn't giving consent. Also, he wouldn't share what site they were posted to, but they're out there. I dunno what to do, but would like to know if the police could be involved. I'm willing to to down to VA, and don't want him to get away with violating me and boasting about it. I don't want him to hurt anyone else. I know I am late if I do go to report, and I was trying to avoid reporting due to the toll it would take on me. It was hard enough sharing such things with a judge in family court. But after learning that he's distributing the videos, I want it to stop, are the least have them removed from the site which he wouldn't name. Sorry to blab anyone advice would be greatly appreciated.