Going back to my original question #5, would fighting make the statute go back to zero? A shoplifting charge would not look good on her record. She just got rid of the fighting charge. I don't mind paying civil demand. I will call court to see if she did have a court date.
Also is there a way I can scare her into not stealing and fighting or any type of mischief. I was thinking something like boot camp would teach her a lesson to not get get in trouble anymore. I'm really tired of her getting in so much trouble.

