Hi, I am hoping someone can help with this matter. My boyfriend has been divorced for 7 years. He relocated to Colorado from Texas 3 years ago. His ex-wife also moved out here so that his son could be closer to his dad or so she claims. Since we have been going out (which has been 1 year now) she has shown very irrational and upsetting behavior twords my boyfriend. She shows up a his softball games and makes rude comments to him in front of his friends even makes threats that if he continues to date me or anyone for that matter that she will take their son and leave state. She also has made some threats to me however I have managed to walk away. She tells me I need to stay away from him. He has never let on that they are going to get back together. She will call and harras us when I am over at the house and even get the oldest son who is 19 involved by calling and asking dad to come over for dinner when they know that I am there and we are having dinner together. My question: is this harrassment and what can be done about it?
He would really like to get custody of his son because of this behavior but does not want to hurt his son by pressing charges against his mom. His son wants to live with him but is only 9. What can he do!

