1 card in mine only, 1 card in theirs only, and 2 in both names. It seems like the most of the debt is in regards to the house. But this debt has now harmed our living in this house. If I had known about this before it because a huge debt then I could have done something about it. Now I feel like I'm up against a wall in all directions!
Is there ANYTHING I can do? I have lost all hope of divorce now and am now more miserable than ever. There's no way I can afford this debt on-top of a new place to live (if we could even sell our current place, damn economy) and then if they hit me with child support? Absolutely forget it. I can't stand the fact of being stuck with them the rest of my life because of money!

