My question involves child support in the State of: North Carolina
My child's mother established a court order several years ago for my son.The case is up for review and i have received notification of intent to do so.
The amount of support ordered is $212/mo. The review amount proposed is $786.
The issue I have is that Custodial parent's live-in boyfriend/father of her recently born child (born in December) has no job. Custodial Parent also has no Job.
They live off of the food stamps provided for custodial parent and my child, The section 8 housing that NC provides, and the $212 CS payments.
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Custodial parent has said in conversation that she will not pursue CS obligation against boyfriend for his child.
My Questions:
Does this constitute theft of support?
Is this in violation of Government housing regulations?
Does receiving NC's Assistance require her to pursue Support against him?
What should i inform the court of?
My ultimate concern is that my Child is being neglected, the support i provide used to purchase little food,clothes,etc; and instead used for pot and supporting her Boyfriend. If I Inform the court that Section 8 is being violated she will lose her housing-My child will lose his place to live.
To have the support raised just to support him and his child would be a slap in the face.
My backround:
Job to job (Minimum wage) 2000-2008
Military 2008-present
Order established in 2004
Currently 600+ miles from custodial parent and child.
Married w/ Step-child and biological child since 2010.

