Showing up at a court hearing to ask for a restraining order, when you're aware that someone is trying to have YOU served with one, would be in the top three stupidest things she could do. You'll want to have a copy of the order that needs to be served on her in your possession, and ask the court if you can serve her then and there. The fact that police filed the order on your behalf after arresting HER for assault should be all the judge needs to put an end to her attempts to get an order against you.

