Things were pretty much over between them just after conception so while it seems that the timing was strange she was pretty much emotionaly out of there way before things ever started with me. The father has no income, no ability to retain his own lawyer and has been supported by me and my fiance's father since seperation. She has been living with me because living with him would have just been bad for everyone involved. Its a pretty unusual situation as we are on a pretty much friendly basis most of the time.

And he was on a visitors visa. Which at this point I believe has been overstayed for 4 years.