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  1. #1
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    Default Dealing with Ex-Wife After the Divorce

    My question involves a marriage in the state of: Texas

    Ok so I have been divorced for about 14 months, I do everything I am suspose to according to my court ordered divorce decree, my ex-wife however seems to like to text me a bunch of bs and stir stuff up, and I am in the military and her favorite thing is to call my command. It doesnt bother me she calls my command as I don't think I should have to deal with them for this civil matter. She gets upset with different thnigs like medical bills that are to be split 50/50 which I am ok with, but she sends them to my command, according to my decree she is suspose to mail me a bill and allow me time to pay, she doesnt do this. How can my military command truly get involved?

    We have 3 children together, she just sends text with bs not about the kids, can I get a restraining order against her from calling me and calling work, I could see if its something like I a threatning her or something but I just leave her alone, I moved on with my life, and am happy. I truly wants what's best for the kids. She is messing my kids up by telling them every time we fight and what its about, what kind of parent is this? I do not put her down in front of my kids. I am just looking what I can do so I don't hear crap from work, as I shouldnt have to, I truly just want her to leave me alone. I cannot really change my number b/c according to the decree I have to notify of her any changes of phone number and address.

    I appreciate any help in this matter.

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    Default Re: Dealing with Ex-Wife After the Divorce

    You could try petitioning the court to order her to send the documents to you and to not bother your command if you're in compliance with the court's order, but if you aren't suffering any ill effect I question whether doing so is worth the time and expense.

    You can also consider whether you should petition for a provision to prohibit the parents from badmouthing each other in front of the children.

    You haven't indicated that you are interested in modifying the present custodial arrangement, and as long as your kids live with your ex- you're going to have to deal with her at some level.

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    Default Re: Dealing with Ex-Wife After the Divorce

    I would inform her you will only pay medical bills you receive first hand and will not acknowledge receipt of any passed via command.

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