OP - You stated the language of the order so perhaps there is a violation, but I am not sure of that. Does the order say 'to' or does it say 'though'? There is a huge difference. I would be surprised if the CPO actually prevents him from contacting your friends and family. In general, an order prohibits the restrained from asking your friends and family to pass messages to you from him and prohibits him from communicating with you via third parties.

