If you've got demonstrable damages, you can sue for them. Police obviously didn't find reason to make an arrest, so unless she broke something or caused some other form of damages, it's a done deal. The court isn't going to have a problem with her getting her stuff (which the court did order returned to her, even if it didn't specify the how, when, etc.) with law enforcement present - they did their job by making her leave when her behavior became inappropriate. The whole point of a restraining order is to prevent violence, assault, or other crimes from being committed. When officers are on scene for people to do things like pick up kids or property, the same thing is accomplished. She got her stuff, and was removed. Now that her stuff is out, she's got no reason to be back. If she returns, then you have recourse under the order. Make sure that ALL of her stuff is returned and then wipe her off your shoe.

