LOL i DO take care of my brother. Ever since my sister moved out, I was the one who bought groceries, brought him to piano lessons, brought him to tutoring sessions, brought him to school. To this day, I'm still the one who cooks and does his laundry. I helped him apply to the community college here and I walked him through everything for his GED. It's gotten so ridiculous that he has called me mom a few times.
Unfortunately, my mom does not see this. When she's home, she doesn't cook because she's on her "diet" and only walks around yelling at us. Otherwise, she's out with her friends somewhere on certain nights.
There is too much background info for me to post it all & the situation is unclear to me so I can't share all the things I want to. Thank you for all your help though- you have given me lots of new things to think about.

