My husband and I are getting a divorced. He is an illegal allien, we have two kids together. I was wondering what kind of right/responsibilities does he has in regards to child support and visitation. There are some factors that would have to be taken under consideration. First, he is on probation for poss. of c/s. I don't even know where he is staying at this moment, nor do I have a direct phone # for him. To the best of my knowledge he is living with his girlfriend, however I have no information as to where he is or how to get a hold of him. ( I do have his parents number, which is where I call - They will give him the message and he will call me back from a block #). He is not contributing financially when it comes to the children (I have not taken him to the child support enforcement office). Could I file for abandonment/adultery? Is there a way I could file for sole custody of my children? Now, even though I can't directly get a hold of him, and he is not contributing financially, he does want to get a divorce. He and his family are also constantly asking to see the kids. I am afraid of what would happen, from his history of drugs to taking the kids out of the country.
Any advise will be greatly appreciated.

