sorry, i text alot as you can see lol and i didnt state enough info for you to fully understand me. i paid back all the welfare she recived, when her husband left her with our daughter and his kids also. so why would they make me pay it all back in child support and not him . he is her husband and father of two of the kids she got cash aid for...im certin that every pennie recived from welfare was not just for our child and not his two as well."man runs out on family, x old man pays for it". the leagal system is so unfair and sexist . i raised our child for years alone so the mother could use drugs and never see her,abuse me and ruin some lives. my origional question is, why wasnt she billed child support after all i did to get some? will she have to eventualy pay if i take her to court,because the local chld supp. office says they have no case or account on her, even tho i filed for child support many times against her.i pay but....am denied my court orderd visitation,still have to pay support, and back support ( I was never notified ,till i lost license ), work or no work they bill me and wont lower monthly either, and add interest biggggtime,they even took my drivers license again due to only getiing 2/3 payments due to lack off work. i lost a job due to that also. i guesse im lost becausei worked so hard in court for so many years, and she never had to do the drug class as court ordered , didnt do anger managment either. never saw a cent nor her . now shes got money, a nice life and im stuck livin the life as if i was her when she was a drug abuser and homles. ive always taken care of things like a good man should. but im in debt like im a horible guy....make sense? any input would be great

