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    Default Is My Husband the Father - Or is it the stranger he doesnt know about?

    Okay, so heres my problem... Im 20 years old and pregnant for the 1st time. I had sex with 2 guys in the same week. one on monday, one on sunday. The guy on monday ( tyrome) i only had sex with once. But as time went on, the guy that i slept with on sunday (jay) we started having sex everyday sence that day. Im 22 weeks pregnant now. and our relationship has progressed into something wonderful, we both feel that the babii is his, he wants to marry me and is now living with me- The only thing he doesnt know is that I had sex with tyrome before i had sex with him. The last date of my peroid was probley feburary 28th 2006- but that is just an estamate. I had an ultrasound done on July 24th- The nurse said that I was father along then they thought- up to 2 weeks farther along. So where does that leave me? Is the tyrome the father or jay? Please Help me Before I make the wrong decision and marry him without the babii being his...

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    Default Re: Is My Husband the Father - Or is it the stranger he doesnt know about?

    It is not likely that you will have the opportunity for genetic testing of the baby before the baby is born. There are prenatal tests which can be administered, but they are not usually performed absent unusual circumstances due to cost and risk to the baby.

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    Default Re: Is My Husband the Father - Or is it the stranger he doesnt know about?

    I would wait before I marry him and be truthful if he loves you as much as he says then he will wait to find the truth,ifhe ain't the dad then if he wants and the other is not around then he can fill in the spot

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    Default Re: Is My Husband the Father - Or is it the stranger he doesnt know about?

    If you are large for date 5 months into your pregnancy, there is almost a 2 week give or take or your could be large for date for a health reason like gestational diabetes. Dating from an earlier ultrasound would have been more helpful. If you have never, that is never been pregnant before there is a non invasive prenatal blood test that can determin paternity but it costs about $1,000 and it is no good if you have been pregnant before, that includes miscarriages and abortions. If there is a medical reason, you can have DNA test done along with amnio there is a small risk about 2-3% but better to wait until after week 24 when lungs can be matured with steroids prior to amnio in case of premature labor. not knowing your lmp date makes it difficult to calculate.

    No matter what you do, you need to be honest with your boyfriend, now, he's had 5 months of believing he's the father when he might not be, if you both love each other it is better to start your marriage with honesty. You were not with him when you had sex with this other man, you need to be honest with both of them.

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