My question involves child abuse or neglect in the State of: colorado

my husband is active duty in the army. he has not met nor spoken to our child for e past 2yrs..in which one of e years he was deployed.

he is paying me some allowance every month as per e obligation of e military. however other than that, he has absolute no communication w the child. i have been having difficulty paying for e child expenses.

I have been to e child pysologist due to e child's behaviour. it seems that he misses his father presence.

is this abandonment or child neglect? what are the options that i can have?