My ex had previously and verbally agreed to condone me taking our son to an out of state event for a very short stretch of time (days not weeks). A good stretch of time after making my plans and arrangements which cost money and time, an argument about a seperate issue insued and she sent me a text saying that she had changed her mind about condoning this trip.
our custody agreement states 50 50 custody and was written and signed in Oregon. As well, the agreement specifies times that her or myself are to have him, but goes on to say, "or as agreed to by both parents".
of course I will double check with other sources regarding my question and will not fully rely on the advice given on this thread, howeve I would like some input as to if i would be in violation of the parenting agreement or guilty of breaking any laws if i stayed on course and went any way against her wishes. Is she in violation for going against her verbal agreement with me? was her verbal contract with me legally binding? As a side-note are texts admissable in a court of law?

