ollie, the last thing I want for my child is the father to get custody, he is a terrible person and has been blackmailing me. He says if I don't pay him he will fight to get custody back even though he doesn't want custody, just to make life hell for us. I don't care about the CS I just don't want him near the child.
dogmatique, I sure hope you are right. I know he will file for custody, but I am just hoping he can't win. It just seems the courts do whatever they can to let both parents be apart. I am just hoping the court will see he is unfit, hasn't been in there life, and is blackmailing me.

