My question involves child support in the State of: Alabama

If my visitation is disrupted by the mother moving too far away to have adquate visitation, can I be forced to pay child support while having her husband legally adopt, have his name put on birth certificate, and having my parental rights terminated?

I would like my name to remain on the birth certificate so that he knows who I am and that I paid child support. The mother has told me that he never needs to know about me.