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    Question Collecting Back Support from a Deceased Parent's Social Security Benefits

    My question involves child support in the State of: California

    I had two girls in 1966 and 1969 from a man I never married. He never paid child support even though DPSS had him jailed a time or two. He died in 1989. Now his widow is turning 62 and wants his social security. How can I make the state collect what is owed out of his benefits or can I??? Do I have a remedy at this juncture? When he died she lied and told Worker's Comp he had no kids so my kids got nothing (I just found this out) Do I have recourse after all this time?

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    Default Re: Collecting Back Support from a Deceased Parent's Social Security Benefits

    You may have had a claim against your ex's estate at that time, but his widow's social security will be protected.

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    Default Re: Collecting Back Support from a Deceased Parent's Social Security Benefits

    Your children are (and were) adults. They wouldn't have been entitled to anything anyway.

    And no, you have no recourse at this time.

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    HAHAHAHHA Oh christ, are some women REALLY that bad about things?
    "My ex died 22 years ago, can I collect CS from his widow?"

    Just how anal does it get? The man has passed on, years ago. Maybe you could have his corpse exhumed and in case he took any expensive jewelry to the grave, that could be sold to pay on CS that he owed decades ago. Maybe they could miracle him back to life and put him in jail again until he pays up?

    Not to be smart alec but how did it take 22 years to figure all this out about the widow lying?

    Of course being California, where I think they charge men for CS and alimony even if they never married or had kids, you might have a chance. I think Cali is like the worst state in the union about CS and spousal support and canine support and whatever other "support" women think they are entitled to.

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    Default Re: Collecting Back Support from a Deceased Parent's Social Security Benefits

    Quote Quoting Moise
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    HAHAHAHHA Oh christ, are some women REALLY that bad about things?
    "My ex died 22 years ago, can I collect CS from his widow?"

    Just how anal does it get? The man has passed on, years ago. Maybe you could have his corpse exhumed and in case he took any expensive jewelry to the grave, that could be sold to pay on CS that he owed decades ago. Maybe they could miracle him back to life and put him in jail again until he pays up?

    Not to be smart alec but how did it take 22 years to figure all this out about the widow lying?

    Of course being California, where I think they charge men for CS and alimony even if they never married or had kids, you might have a chance. I think Cali is like the worst state in the union about CS and spousal support and canine support and whatever other "support" women think they are entitled to.

    Please cite one case where a man was ordered to pay child support for a child that was NOT his either biologically, legally or via de facto parent standing.

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    Default Re: Collecting Back Support from a Deceased Parent's Social Security Benefits

    Quote Quoting charli777
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    My question involves child support in the State of: California

    I had two girls in 1966 and 1969 from a man I never married. He never paid child support even though DPSS had him jailed a time or two. He died in 1989. Now his widow is turning 62 and wants his social security. How can I make the state collect what is owed out of his benefits or can I??? Do I have a remedy at this juncture? When he died she lied and told Worker's Comp he had no kids so my kids got nothing (I just found this out) Do I have recourse after all this time?
    This might come to a shock to you...But that 62 year old widow has been recieving your ex social security checks since 1989.

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    Default Re: Collecting Back Support from a Deceased Parent's Social Security Benefits

    Quote Quoting Moise
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    . I think Cali is like the worst state in the union about CS and spousal support and canine support and whatever other "support" women think they are entitled to.
    It really has nothing to do with what women think they are entitled to...and everything to do with what a court determines that the CHILD is entitled to, regardless of which parent, or any OTHER party like grandparents, aunts, uncles, siblings, foster parents etc., is the primary caretaker (all of whom would ALSO be entitled to that support).

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