My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Oregon
I'm facing a custody dispute with my girlfriend of nearly 4 years, and would like to see full custody due to her continued untreated problems with horading making her unable to provide a healthy and clean home environment for our child. I've been extremely involved with our child and we have a very close relationship.
Problem is so far, I was unable to get overnight weekend visitation with our child in a temporary parenting time hearing because my ex brought up the fact that she is continuing to breastfeed and co-sleep with our nearly 3 year old child - a bone of contention, as she has refused to eliminate this while we were together.
How can I fight this, and is there any point and which breastfeeding would not interfere with my at least obtaining overnight visitation?
With regards to the hoarding issue, the atty I consulted said I really need to hire a parenting evaluator (think this is what he called it), who would evaluate both of our homes and make a determination as to who could provide the best environment for our child. This would cost around 4K and that's not an option, as my income is so low I qualify for the state's reduced atty fee program. Anyone have alternative ideas?
Thank you

