My question involves a child custody case from the State of: Oklahoma to California; My husband and I are concidering divorce. I am originally from California and all of my family is there (one of the main reasons why we are divorcing) and for the past 2years I have wanted to move back and he refuses. I can't stand it here another day longer but I dont knwo what the law is as far as taking my boys with me if we have not filed for custody or divorce. Also can I or he file in either state (we married in CA) and what happens then? Would either one have to go to the state where divorce/custody was filed?

