My question involves a relationship in the state of:California
In mar 2011 I allowed a woman I had known for about a year and had dated a few times in the month of feb to occasionally stay at my 1 bedroom house. She had recently lost her job and was staying a few houses away with a friend. She would stay a few days then be gone a few days. This was never a boyfriend girlfriend situation. After several incidents with her and aquantances of hers I spoke with her and explained that this was not working out and she would have to find an other place to go when she wasnt able to stay at her friends. She agreed, but things didnt change she then brought a few more belongings(clothes,towels,sheets) in. untill finally I had enough of her constant drama and visitors. I insisted that she leave. Thats when she declared Im a tenant and when i placed locks on the gates she called the police, and even though she had never paid a penny on rent or utilities,did not have a door key, recieved no mail there and was not on the rental agreement the police said said she is a tenant and could use any means nesessary to gain access. They said i would have to evict Her. It has been an absolute nightmare its as though the police gave a lunatic free reighn of my house and there is nothing I can do untill the eviction process is done(the property owner is a dear friend of mine and lives in an othe state and has just begun the eviction this week). I have called the police so many times they are sick of coming out as usually its a civil matter and they are there to keep the peace. I am deeply rooted in this house and am remodeling another house on the same property so it would be nearly impossible for me to move somewhere else. Not to mention sticking my landlord(friend) with the task of getting rid of this squatter. Now I have been made aware that she has recieved a temporary restraining order on me. I have read Her statements and know them to be complete lies. There is a hearing scheduled for 6/6/2011.She has not yet had me served and there is no kickout order granted just for me to stay away from her,her home and place of employment(this place is allso fictional). My question is who has to leave? And what can I do if the police say i have to go. There is a question on the request for order that asks if granted will it impede me in getting to and from my home or work. She answered no. When in fact it would prohibit Me from both. She hasnt had me served yet and im not sure why.Please help before this woman destroys my life Thank You

