My question involves a roommate in the State of: Oregon
My lease is month-to-month (I've been here for several years and have no desire to move). My current roommate moved in ~8 months ago and brought with him a boyfriend.
At first the BF only stayed for a night or two here and there, then a lot more (6+ nights a week). During the ~8 months they have had 3 escalating breakups/makeups. During the last breakup they got VERY loud (to the point of disturbing the neighbors), physical confrontation and the BF took a knife to his wrist. I called 911, police, ambulance, drama, etc.
Later that day I talk to the roomie and give him a choice- he either needs to move out or the BF is no longer welcome here. The roommate takes the 2nd choice and all is quiet for 2 weeks. Two days ago I get a text from the roommate saying he's having the BF back, I ask if this is his 30 day notice to which he responds with a rant ending in "deal with it" and the BF has been here since.
I've started a dialog with my landlord but he says without a copy of the police report there is nothing he can do (I already tried to get a copy but was denied due to the reports mental health contents). At this point I no longer feel safe with this individual around. I could file a restraining order, but fear retaliation from both parties playing the rainbow and mental health issues cards. Any input?

