well they both have been, she is a caregiver and works all day & night shifts, so when she works he comes with us, he would normally be with us 4 days out of the week and she normally didn't work on the other days and she would have him, it has been like this since the beggining but now its been to a point where, if shes mad at the father then we can't see him, but if shes in a good mood or wants to go out then we can keep him. So we want something in writing from the courts saying when we can see him on these days. If this does go to court would it matter that the father of the child is living at the parents house?

