I didn't speak to my daughter about moving here. If you would have read the original note I posted you would've saw that her grandparents were allowing me to have her back after this school year was over. At that time I already lived almost 4 hours from her so her grandmother and I spoke to her about what a change it would be so we could make sure it was what she truly wanted.
I would never ask my daughter if she wanted to move where I am now. Especially since I don't know if it'll even be possible. She wants to know why she isn't aloud to come now and all I said to her was that no matter where she was I loved her and her grandparents loved her so she should feel happy that so many people love her so much they wish to be with her all the time.
Thank you for your advise.

