Okay thanks, So we did talk to a couple of lawyers. Most of them said different things. but they did agree that it would be better for here to wait two year more before trying (because she has been here 8 yrs). But one lawyer stated that he had pretty much the same situation and won the case . But he said there are no guarantees. But let me ask you, how flexible are judges with scenarios like this . I mean, base on the fact she left to escape and harmful environment and all? im in Arizona, does that make a difference?