My question involves a child custody case from the State of:NYC
I have Joint Legal custody and visitation ever other weekend,my child who is 4 doesn't want to come home with me..I supposed to have her last week,but i let her stay,so now i went to get her today,she was happy to see me.she smile laughed..and i told her mom why she not ready? she said she doesn't want to go and i said she has too,she said no she don't because she went to court and ask the clerk what happend if a child does not want to go he said i cant force her? like how is that?? idk if she ieing or what everytime i go there to get my daughter she not ready,the mother doesn;t seem to care if she does not go with me. So i have to go to to court on monday and find out..But is it true that the child cant be force? i mean if i dont get my child she could violate me saying i didnt show up..And i email the momther saying to have to ready she said,"i don't have to ***,she not gome anyway blah balh...I spend time with my child,i take her everwhere,she fed,i buy her cloths...she wants to destroy my relationship with my kid..
PS:The mother has 2 violations for invading my visits so is it possible to seek sole custody? this going to be the 3 one,and if i let it be she could do it again, i file for 2 violations back in feb,and i had court date on feb 8,judge told her she in comtempt,so this gunna be a 3 violations..her mother lets the child make the decision when it comes to me,but if it was school yea the mother makes the decision and she make sure she goes to school.she being unfair and selfish..And the mother use to go to therapy or counseling when she was 15 for young teens but she left the program..

