My question involves restraining orders in the State of: Kansas
My husband's ex is vindictive and will do anything to not let him see his kids. She lives in Kansas and we live in Texas. She filed a protection from stalking order on my husband, who is severely crippled (he suffers a broken spine). He cannot travel to make this hearing. He also cannot harm her (being disabled and two states away). Unfortunately, the court order says he has to appear IN PERSON to dispute her claims. She cannot and has not proven that he is stalking her but she did create a letter saying that it is from him (sent via Myspace). The letter is basically a 'hi, how are you, I'm worried about you...got news...' Nothing threatening at all. And it doesn't contain his name or his picture. My husband doesn't have a myspace account at all. And if he was to send her a letter, he wouldn't be 'worried' about her but more like angry at her for all the abuse she gave him...she killed his cat, kidnapped his kids, filed another restraining order on him years ago and before he was served, she invited him over and then called the police. He spent 3 days in jail before charges were dropped (he wasn't even served and knew nothing of the order!) But now, he's in need of full care and medical attention and she's trying to say he contacted her and it's "creepy" and "inappropriate" and she is "traumatized" by the contact because he abused her in the past. I've been married to him for 14 months and he is not abusive at all! Another thing that surprises me, she showed up to the hearing with a lawyer, and when I looked up the lawyer, it was from a state agency, a pro bono attorney helping out the poor. As if we didn't pay her over a thousand dollars in child support last month! I can't believe an attorney would consent to this unlawful abuse of process and do it for free. Is there a way for a disabled (obviously non-threatening) person to prove her lies without having to travel over 800 miles?

