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boozapian
You have a good point. In the past we have gone to mediation over reducing the arrears & he tried to get me to agree to a lower amount on the phone, and then in person tried to get me to "just erase it completely". I, of course, was at the mediation as a pro se party, and he knows I cannot afford representation.
As far as filing a motion for contempt, I have done this twice in the past, and after doing so, he responded by sending me emails that would make Mel Gibson look like Mother Theresa. In short, I am scared. He uses intimidation tactics to instill fear and it works.