My question involves a marriage in the state of:??
Need advise:
Facts :
1) we are married overseas 15 years ago, we are not US Citizen nor perm residency holders. Perm residency is still away by few months.
2) I work and own a house, plus few bank accounts and I bought an apartment overseas in joint ownership.
3) We have two children 6 yr and 2 yr old sons.
4) Wife used to work before the first child was born., now she is stay home mom, watches TV all the time, on the phone for hours, and on the internet for hours.
Problems:
1) Wife is always disrespectful to me since last couple of years we always have arguments on small/little things.
2) She gets very angry at kids, beats them, forces them to eat, screams at them and gets very violent.
3) A couple of times she threatened to commit suicide and also kill the kids. (although I know she said that in an angry mood), I told her I will call the cops if she says something like this again and she said she would tell them I caused this situation.
4) She always gets very violent, very loud and screams a lot.
Questions:
1) I just want to end this all, I told her numerous times not to do such things in front of the kids since it affects them a lot.
2) I would like to expel her out of my house, not give her any money since I created all this. I would also like to keep the kids. Even though she is a good mother and loves my kids a lot but she goes to extremity and I don’t like to create such scenes in front of the kids.
3) What are the laws for filing a divorce? Do I have to file a divorce or can we just break the relationship? I know she will not want to do that because she cannot do anything by herself. I am very tired of her behaviour.

