He picks him up every other weekend (Fri-Sun) for the most part - when a sport season is in session, he picks him up after his Sat game. Never attends Teacher conferences, Back to school night, games, etc. The hard part is we live about an hour apart so he refuses to pick him up on Fri and bring him back on Sat for a game or other activity.
More than anything it just upsets me that we (my husband and I)work so hard and have to say no to so many things for my son when that extra help for the dad would be SO helpful - it's really not even that much, we survive without it. But why can't he support his child but can afford to take beach vacations?

