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    Default Re: No Child Support Payments

    He picks him up every other weekend (Fri-Sun) for the most part - when a sport season is in session, he picks him up after his Sat game. Never attends Teacher conferences, Back to school night, games, etc. The hard part is we live about an hour apart so he refuses to pick him up on Fri and bring him back on Sat for a game or other activity.

    More than anything it just upsets me that we (my husband and I)work so hard and have to say no to so many things for my son when that extra help for the dad would be SO helpful - it's really not even that much, we survive without it. But why can't he support his child but can afford to take beach vacations?

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    Default Re: No Child Support Payments

    Sounds like it is all working out with the weekends. not sure what else you can do except make sure he does what the state requires.

    You need to stop asking why the father puts his life ahead of his son's life and accept that he does and treat him as a self-centered uninvolved parent. Almost zero chance that he will change and almost zero chance he will do anything that is not required by the court.

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    Default Re: No Child Support Payments

    OP, you must understand that if Dad files to establish a court-ordered parenting plan, you likely will NOT be able to force him to take kiddo to events that are scheduled during his parenting time.

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