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broken heart
Ok i'll clarify the matter. Thanks for all the advice so far!
We will be married for five years on sept 29. My husband is going through a bankruptcy right now so we can not file until that is finished. So we will be married for 5 years when we do file. I was Dx with MS a year after the twins were born. My Dr stated that the birth of the twins is what probably brought out the MS. We don't know when I actually got it. But it is my understanding that I may have never had any symptoms if I didn't have kids. I don't want to blame the twins for this its just a fact that pregnancy has brought the disease to the surface with many people according to my Dr. I am on S.S. disability. My husband said that his employer would not let me stay on the medical after the divorce. Is there a way that this is possible? As it stands right now. I will be using his lawyer (who is also my lawyer for another matter) and we will be working together. We agreed that the lawyer will represent me as long as everything stays as we agreed. If it changes he will fight for full custody. I just think i'm owed a part of his pension for the years we were married since we both agreed in the beginning that I would be a stay at home mom. The 1,300 is for child support. He will not agree to allimony. We will be sharing custody 50 -50. I think the 1,300 for support is more than fair. I did the calculations and I should not even be getting that much for a 50-50 split. Heres another question that I have. I recorded our conversation the other day where he admits that he's in another relationship. If he does decide to make this a fight will I be able to use the recording as proof of his affair in court?
Thanks!