My question involves a child custody case from the State of: South Carolina
My ex has primary care and I have visitation. He schedules activites for the children which make visitation difficult. He tells the children they have to talk to me because it's my visitation time to see if they have to miss the scheduled activity.
This has caused me to miss many weekend visitation, in that, I don't want to tell the children they have to miss Friday dances or Saturday practices to visit me. I live 3 hours away so the courts granted all long weekend visitation at least 1 time a month. I have not seen them since Christmas.
My attorney sent a detailed letter, but there has been no change. It got worse. I don't have funds to keep paying my attorney for these letters at $250/hour. He just keeps violating the decree with no consequence.
Also, he told the kids he is getting married soon, but did not let me know.
Primary care is to change July 2011 to me; however, I expect him to file modification to keep primary care. Hence, the need to get married because he cannot live with her in SC and keep primary care.
Can someone offer ideas on how to prevent continued alienation of a parent visitation. He places the kids in the middle.

