My question involves a marriage in the state of: My wife of 20 years informed me that she has cheated on me for the last 4 years. she waited for me to get on disability/SSI before she left me and my boys. She later told me of her affairs within our marriage. She was not happy in our marriage and told many people that she was leaving as soon as I got on SSi. I was told that if she filed for divorce that she was responsible for all court costs and attorney fees since I was on disability/SSI. Is that correct? Should I request alimony?

